Voluntary and Involuntary Childlessness: The Joys of Otherhood? (Contributor)
I contributed the chapter, “The Intentionally Childless Marriage,” to Voluntary and Involuntary Childlessness: The Joys of Otherhood? (2018) published by Emerald Publishing in the UK. “Underpinned by a feminist ontology,” the book brings together “research from a wide range of scholarly disciplines, including philosophy, psychology, sociology, gender studies, social work and social policy.”
The collection of chapters provide “an insight into the current state of the art research on the drivers, determinants, manifestations and outcomes of childlessness. It is intended to be a key resource for scholars, students and policymakers addressing this issue in a wide range of disciplinary contexts.”
The Baby Matrix
After publishing Families of Two (below), I began digging into why society continues to find this choice hard to fully accept, which inspired my book, The Baby Matrix: Why Freeing Our Minds From Outmoded Thinking About Parenthood & Reproduction Will Create a Better World (2012).
- Read more about The Baby Matrix
- Check out this review by Mardy Ireland, Phd.D., psychologist and author of Reconceiving Women: Separating Motherhood From Female Identity: “The Baby Matrix: A Needed Book for the 21st Century”
- What people are saying about The Baby Matrix
- Read the introduction and first two chapters of The Baby Matrix
In researching The Baby Matrix I learned learn a lot about overpopulation issues, and led me to renowned conservationist Dave Foreman, who I collaborated with to develop Man Swarm: How Overpopulation is Killing the Wild World (2015).
As part of showing that overpopulation is real and solvable, this book looks at the ways in which outmoded thinking about parenthood and reproduction affects the world’s ongoing population explosion.
Families of Two
Inspired by wanting to learn from long-time happily married childfree couples, Families of Two: Interviews With Happily Married Couples Without Children by Choice,* (2000) received international acclaim and paved the way for me to become one of the leading voices and experts on the childfree choice. I ran the popular blog, La Vie Childfree, which now lives here in my ever growing childfree writings library. With a Master’s in Psychology and Communications, since the late 1990s I have researched the childfree choice and those who make it. I have interviewed and talked with thousands who have made this choice.
* 2nd edition currently in development!
Finding Fulfillment From The Inside Out
My first book was an outgrowth of an early chapter of my career, when I counseled people people who had been laid off from their jobs. The book lays out a process I used to help my clients find purpose and meaning, from the inside out.